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i don't believe things last, i believe people grow comfortable and accustomed to situations; reluctant to leave because they hate the idea of change, difference and making it by themselves- love, dependence or just attachment? descriptions are irrelevant. different words, different connotations- essentially they're the same, it's all about perspective.
don't get me wrong though, i do believe friendships last but when you think about it a lot of them last because they're convenient. friendships have less obligations and consequences and much more freedom than relationships. i'm not trying to be negative, just realistic- that's why you find you're sometimes closer to some than others. don't get me wrong though, that's not to say friendships are selfish- i love my friends to death, i really do and i know they understand what i mean. as for those who don't, and take this offensively- grow up please, you are no high-schooler (unless you really are). stop trying to be in everyone's good books, it just shows how easy it is to get into yours and everyone loves a bit of a chase.


- jae.